If you've been in Korea for more than a couple years, I'm sure you've realized that there are a LOT of selfish motherfuckers here. Why? Because most are passerby-ers and figure that they can just use and abuse people they meet in Korea, since they'll most likely never run into them again post-Korea. I frickin HATE selfish motherfuckers. Most are pretty obvious about it, but some are sneaky little fuckers. I will talk about both types.
1) Outright CHANG's: So this girl, let's call her...Chang, for a lack of a better word. kakaka. She's like this short, dark, not attractive, 촌스러운 (country fashioned) girl, who like never partied before she came to Korea. But low and behold, she starts going out in Korea like crazy and thinks she's some sort of socialite and knows everyone and thinks she got the hook up to all the places. Bitch will like roll up with 30 people, asking for wristbands for all of them, acting like she's a promoter and shit. The real promoters got annoyed of her quick. Anyways, she just started getting worse and worse. By the time she was ready to go back to the states, I don't know if she was tryna save $$ or what not, but like...she would not even want to pay for coat check! It's like $2! So when me n my girls would coat check, she would just throw in her shit with ours, ALWAYS, and say she didn't have cash or watever. Then! She would make us stay until SHE wanted to leave. Wtf... Oh! And she would straight up like talk to nasty as guys for free drinks, and like bounce right after. That's so rude. At least have a conversation with them, you know? She would also try to share cabs, even though her house is way out of the way, and then chip in like $2... smh.
2) Undercover Changs: So this girl, let's call her..Sneaky. She lived far away from Seoul so I used to let her crash at my place on the weekends. At first, she bought me lunch and things here and there but then soon enough she got too comfortable and just started not showing gratitude at all. And by the time she was ready to go back, shit got real weird and awkward between us, cuz she started kind of being distant and hanging out with her co-workers more (of which she used to always talk shit about). Anyway, a year after she goes back to the states, she decides to come back with her sister. She has the audacity to ask if the two of them can stay in my studio. I mean, it's already cramped with two people, and she's tryna bump it up to three? cuz of their cheap asses? oh hail no, so I was like nah~ So she comes, and I think that we'll hang out and stuff, but again she chooses to kick it with her lame as co-workers. So, I was like whatever. In conclusion, she was just a sneaky ho that used and abused me for free weekend housing and was quite sneaky about hiding it until she left to go back home.
I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but seriously...I'm just drained from expending my energy on people that really didn't deserve it in the first place. I mean, I already do keep my circle of friends really small, but gah~ people really never fail to amaze me. You would think, being in their late 20s will be more mature and considerate. Nope, the opposite happens. People are always thinking about "what can this person do for me?" It's disgusting, I'd rather be a loner/loser than hang out with people like that, for sure.
